I think I have decided that this is a giant troll thread. Of course, as I have observed before in today's world sarcasm is almost the same as seriouscasm.
But in case it is serious, most of these ideas are bad, and you want to bring in players? Taking away something isn't the way to do it, nor is forcing them into something that they don't want to do. IF you do that, they won't play the game at all. Hate to break it to you, but Space sims are a niche product. You drive away an already limited population, well, you get less people to gank.
You also quote SC as the Holy Grail of what you want, but get mad when others suggest you go play that. So if another game has what you want, why not go there? See this is why I think that this is a troll. Not to mention suggesting that others who do not like you ideas go play NMS, but get mad when others suggest you go play SC? Makes no sense to me, and if you are not a troll, then I would suggest that you might be wearing a big red nose, white face paint, floppy shoes, and run around squirting people at the circus with a squirty flower.