I agree with the OP . This is basically what I also wanted to express as what I understand the game to be as I play it. Also to add on the point of why players do not want to move from system to system:
Once we have earned and bought a few ships we are rooted even more firmly to that system as there is the added burden of not being able to move our ships to a new system in a hassle free manner. I know this is Elite: dangerous and not Elite: hassle free. but I also think this is not Elite: Tedious. you want us to move from system to system? well give us the means i have an entire fleet scattered around the human bubble because I was trying to play exactly as you mentioned in your interview. and swapping from ship to ship is such a pain.
Of course it's a pain and it was an obvious pain. I can't imagine how the dev team meetings went but it seems they didn't bother to talk about what parts of the game might constitute boring and tedious. Why did they not discuss the scenario of having to jump over and over just to get back to our ships. On top of that, if they wanted to not have our ships scattered then why do we have to fly all over the galaxy looking for a dealer.
The game is at odds with it's own reality. Given that we have autopilots and people, it would be easy to hire someone to deliver a ship given that space travel in ED is so easy. Think about it. Your sat in your armchair at home, you press a button and ur armchair starts moving and then you press another couple of buttons and hey presto, you're a few trillion miles from where you used to be. Space travel in ED is trivial.
So they either talked about this problem of ship management and jumping over and over and over again or they completely forgot about the part in game development where you go over the mechanics and see how they might be so boring you might want to think about changing them.
What motivation is there to load the game up, log in and then fly 200ly to pick up a ship you suddenly want to fly knowing the state of the missions right now? I'd rather play something else.