In proper fight (even when FdL interdicts T7) C-log (task killing, menu log or whatever the method) is completely wrong and breaks game experience.
Here I'm not referring to cheep station ganking as that is also game braking experience IMO and should not be allowed.... If someone pulls that on you, I cannot blame people for logging back to menu and frankly it is one exploit against another...
Use of FSD, SCB, chaff, ECM and any other ship equipment to survive an attack/combat is not cheating, you can think differently, but that is your opinion. It might not be brave act but it is using perfectly valid game mechanics.
I like to have immersion and playing in open is definitely more filled with adrenaline. If you like immersion, you will try to stay "alive". Some may role play to be a crazy killers that will stay in fight until they kill or get killed.
Both are valid. Be brave sir Robin or mad max

but play the game fair and try not to brake game experience to others just because you know how to band game rules and bypass limitations.