Let's just settle this now, Red - you don't feel old and 50 isn't old - even it is past midlife - given that male persons have a life expectancy of less than 82 years. So half of their life is gone when they pass the age of 41. They are still fit and so, but they are in the 2nd half of their lives. This shouldn't insult you in any way, it is just a fact - we don't live up to 130 years old, so to see 65 as still being middle aged is stretching it. Being in one's 40s is middle aged - just seen from life expectancy, it's realistic to see it this way.