When the game was announced it was going to be without VR at all, and they changed that in response to the players disappointment. Not long before you bought in December I think.
I'd be careful assuming that the paranoid slights some in the forum attribute to fdev are actually real.
I'd just point out nothing - nothing - has changed re VR since before you bought. It might seem like something has, but, you know, forum drama.
Nothing has changed ... the game was built from the ground for VR, so I expect it to support VR. When Odyssey said no to VR, there was a big outcry among those affected. FDev came around and explained they can't do it for launch, but will provide a way to at least continue playing for the time being.
I haven't bought odyssey, but with LTE I still got it for my main account, and I acutally like it. Even the on foot part. Except that I have to play it on that stopgap solution of a virtual screen, when nearly everything for a tier 1 VR implementation is already there - you can go to external view for VR on foot, but unfortunately you can't interact with anything. Headtracking works as far as I know (might be wrong on that), so decoupling gun and eyes also works. Rendering a working crosshair might be tricky, but if I have to close one eye to shoot straight, I'll do it. or just offset it correctly. So we are really really really close to what I would expect as a MVP of a VR implementation ...
Nausea can be mitigated, all the forced animations that are a problem for on foot are fade to blacks anyway, some people might have trouble with the on foot part, but some people get nausea while playing on a screen. the virtual screen is actually way more discomforting than any VR game I played.
Everytime I land, I get this disembark option, haunting me, telling me that I am not an important player of this game, because Elite is no longer built for VR. My other accounts won't get oddysey - doesn't make much sense to have a second account for coop VR gaming when you can't do it.
No plans is really disheartening - no capacity is sad, but understandable, I wouldn't expect VR to be added while they have the problems they have currently. Well, maybe at some point Elite will become the best VR game it once was again.
At the moment I am just sad.