I am quite new to the game.
But I don't get the discussion…
To talk about balancing in a game with such a vast variety of ships, weapons, defence etc. - i'm sorry - is ridiculous…
There's are just a few genres in all gaming which are really balanced.
And as Elite Dangerous - as I understand and it's announced as such - is a Simulation, I can't see the necessaty of balancing.
The first time I've encountered PvP in Elite, I was flying in my ASP Explorer with a small shield (for higher jump range), barely weapons and no kind of Armor.
I got interdicted and instantly shot at. Not even the glance of a chance. Did I complain? Yeah, a bit of course, because my data was lost. But did i start to whine about it? No, I even tried to Chat with the one who killed me. Asked him a bit about PvP etc.
So my Point: Space is a dangerous place and you'll never know what you'll Encounter. And as it's a Simulation, I can accept the fact, sometimes I get killed (by hostile humans, Thargoids or a Neutron star) and sometimes I kill others - humans and maybe the little Thargoid Scoutship.
And to say, just those who have a lack of skill are using prime ammo, I don't think so. In every game I played where you can compete with others, everyone tries to get the best equip, gear, weapons or whatever.
Gran Turismo for instance, you try to get the fastest car and try to get the best Settings into every part of the car.
Football games, ppl try to get the best Players on the Transfer market.
WoW, farming Points to get the best PvP gear and the best enchantments
And I could go on and on and on...
So why not spending time to farm the best ammo and get the best Powerplay weapons/Defence. And still then, if I would have the best equiped, engineered Viper I could even have, there might be a FDL who kills me, because it's a midsize ship vs a small ship.
So my Point is: you can't prepare for everything because there are so many different possibilities of Encounters. The only thing one could do, prepare himself the best he can.
If I don't have time to farm for prime ammo, so I'd use normal ammo because it's the best I can do at that Point. If I'd have enough time I'd use it. Doesn't matter if I am "skilled" or not.
The Point "Report Crimes": I get it that it's annoying if someone who is just bullying around and got his "Report Crimes" still on just to annoy ppl.
The healling Thing: Back in the days in another well known MMO in the TS: "Guys, the healer. Focus the healer. FOCUS THE HEALEERRRRRR!!!11"

But if they're really that op, they maybe could flatten the DMG Output of healing speced lasers.
So, greetings earthlings
M3110w