I think the clue is in the title "Elite DANGEROUS", which implies it might not be the best game for people that don't want danger. I can recommend No Man's Sky as a good alternative for people that don't like combat. It is a much more fun game with many more activities and things going on than ED, whilst sharing the same idea of upgrading ships, suits, tools, villages, freighters, etc. After 8000hrs of ED, I found NMS to be very refreshing and compelling.