Dimensionality in abstract mathematical space is not the same as a physical dimensionality.I could, for example, describe my lunch nutritional values with vitamin, carbohydrate and protein dimensions - all of which would be accurate and descriptive - despite there being no such physcial extendinng carbohydrate dimension for which my lunch merely resides in a localised segment.Therefore, there are arguments in which you both are correct, but this is more due to the perspective and approach to the question:"Is time a dimension?"Time itself is illusory as Amadeus correctly identifies. Howewver, in using it descriptively, one often ascribes it to an INDEPENDENT axis, whereby it represents base vectors of a temporal dimensionality. In particular, this is useful in relativistic considerations whereby spacetime intervals require a time component in conventional 3+1 - however, one may elect to choose a different coordinate geometry.The problem with nomenclature is further compunded in that time is often refrfered to as an equivalent yet orthogonal to spatial dimensions - again, this is a choiice of geometry which intuitively matches our experience, not a physical reality.___The notion that you may claim to observe a particle HERE and 'then' HERE highlight s the problem with time as a concept. You are by the use of the word 'then' invoking a specific system of time measurement which you have already determined to represent in a coordinate system.Try to describe the process without relying on such pre-defined ocordinates and assumptions of "now" or "then".If you take time as a variable in any mathematical equation you can call it a dimesion. Or don't, not everybody agree about it. But it's a physical property that is required to define a system and even if you zen and lose your perception of time it will still continue( fast or slow according to your chosen frame point). Those protons and electrons will be one place now and there later. The fact that you can say particle a was here, then here, then here means you are using time as a measurement. If the position or order of positions is meaningless then so is time, but usually it's pretty important and very much real. Even in the theoretical bounds of an event horizon there is the time before entering it and after the black hole eventually dissipates.Time exists and were all gonna die.I should stop watching those Kurzgesagt videos.