NMS is about as shallow a game as it gets. If you want me to compare the design prowess of HG and Fdev, well I would say the FDev peas all over HG.Then you haven't seen the NMS community I've seen. The excited and happy NMS community in Discord for instance. HG's is currently knocking it out of the park with their fan's. So you're not one. That's not the point.
The point is not that the games are the same. They're not. The point is that HG is really doing some great development. The designs and the play-ability of their Freighters (ie Fleet Carriers) are fantastic especially in comparison the haft baked release we're currently testing. The volumetric clouds and weather effects in NMS are worth a couple awards!
Anyone can cherry pick points of a game that aren't so good like the fact that the NMS flight model is terrible terrible terrible. Again that's not the point. The level of development being put in by HG currently puts Frontier to shame!
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IT IS fair to compare the levels of effort and design prowess of HG vs Frontier in these two games and it is hard to do that without concluding that HG is kicking butt for their fans and Frontier is not for theirs.
Yes NMS get updates regularly, but they are shallow updates. Even the "major" updates haven't added that much in the grand scheme of things if you really have a close look at what they are adding.
NMS is awful. As to NMS freighters that's fine for a game like NMS which is basically a single player fantasy game in space. They would look pretty silly in a game like ED that has a semi believable hard sci-fi setting.