I think we shall have to agree to disagree. I'd like to point out that I'm not heartless but I just dont think its appropriate to have the game turn into a weekly funeral service or obituary recital.
Some time back someone had a funeral in this game, I'll show you the vid here:
https://youtu.be/IbTAPDM38lc
It was rather touching, and demonstrates the depth of feeling within the community, but as I said it was a private affair, and certainly no CG, the latest of which ends up with a mudslinging event, and I really dont think its fair to impose folks feeling of loss from real life in game on other players.