So I have this personal rule.
The more of a problem I have with something - the more I find it disagreeable, dangerous or in need of correction - the more I try to start off saying something positive about it. In extreme cases, I make sure to weigh every negative statement with a strong, heartfelt positive. That discipline helps you see things from the other guy's perspective, which in turn makes it easier for said guy to accept criticism as a problem you can resolve together to everyone's benefit. I mention this for two reasons, and the first reason is because it's a very effective technique everyone in this thread should try.
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To the awesome forumites that have stuck to the topic in spite of everything: you people have my utmost respect. You've managed to conduct an intelligent debate throughout all this craziness, and I've genuinely learnt things from you. I'm proud to consider myself a member of a community that can contemplate such painful events in such a grown-up way. I know that reasonable members on all sides of the debate have felt overlooked and underloved this past week or so, but please know that some of us have been lurking and soaking up all that good stuff.
To the remainder: spending a week expressing how you feel is understandable in the situation, especially given the crash course in public relations we've all just given Frontier. But continuing to ignore requests to address the topic is starting to resemble moderator contestment, which damages the community in a way that has nothing to do with the commercial interests of the company running the servers. This cannot be allowed to continue.
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When this thread reopens, I want everyone to say something positive about a position you find disagreeable, dangerous or in need of correction. Find someone you've tustled with and tell them how you respect the pain they've suffered; argue the logic of a position you've railed against; or just tell us about another forumite that's changed your mind on a major issue. I've said enough positive things now to last me a good long while, and will look unfavourably on any reluctance to help heal our community.