Not for me. I can't remember the last weekend I was in fights with less than 3 wings on each side. During training it's pretty much the same.
These are all cross-group fights. I don't want everyone to have to join one of the other squadrons to show up as friendly, which is why I'd prefer Allied Squadrons with a separate colour coding on the scanner for members of those Squadrons. Or since we're based in a community server, a way for commanders to join that community without leaving their squadron or changing their tags. Both would be best.
That means that you and all your wingmates/enemies are lucky to have good internet access. That's not the case for a lot of us.