Everything I’ve managed to learn over the years was either by hands-on experience, or simply by asking questions. Chances are, if you reach out to the guy who just blew you up, they will have advice to share
By this point in the game, virtually every possible combination of well,
anything has been tested. Weapons, defenses, ships, etc. For anyone looking to give
gitting gud an honest attempt, you should look into the
Galactic Combat Initiative. Lotta folks there are known to gank from time to time, but they know their stuff. They may be blunt— if your ship or strategy is awful, they will certainly let you know— but they have good intentions.
Alternatively, our dear friend
@Sir Ganksalot runs a server called the Gank Evasion Academy. I don’t have a link, but it’s geared more toward general survival in open play instead of flat-out PvP.
Might seem strange that the very people who gank would like to show people how to avoid being ganked, but at the end of the day, a stronger, more informed playerbase is good for us all.