I am confused then. Are you saying Steam moderates that speech and Frontier should too or that Steam doesn't do it and Frontier should?
I don't participate in the Steam threads, for the record!
The moderators of Elite Dangerous Steam forums are unpaid employees (for lack of a better term) of Frontier. Steam support claims they (Frontier's Steam moderators, not Steam itself) can use their own guidelines when moderating (seems wrong to me but whatever). If you have an issue with moderation action on Steam's Elite Dangerous forums, you are told to contact Frontier support.
So yes, consistency. Why not? I'd prefer no "censoring" of the terms myself, but if it is going to happen in one place, then why not here too as they are the same people?
And thank you to those of you engaging honestly with this vs trolling, flaming, attempts of humiliation, and those of you using the opportunity to take cheap shots. You've helped me to clarify the issue.