Uh....DOOD.
Thanks for the rant, now have some popcorn.
You DO get that people in this game have tens of thousands of hours in Elite Dangerous playing, fighting and practicing in PvP?
I personally fly a cheapass Logitech joystick with keyboard and am at least between 65-75% on my win/loss percentage against Players.
Maybe you should stop complaining about equipment and start developing your SKILLS.
I REALLY don't care what control system you use. if you are NOT a better fighter than me, I am going to beat you in PvP. And judging by your post, you are NOT a very good fighter. You actually think that control systems have a bearing on the matter.
When I am teaching new students in helicopter training (I am a flying instructor in RL) I sometimes have to tell people "The R-22 is a VERY small helicopter. Leave your damn attitude in your locker. There's no room for it in the air."
Leave your damn attitude at the door, dude. You're preaching to people who have THOUSANDS of hours developing the precise skills you're complaining about. Stop ranting, shut up and LEARN from those who are very willing to teach.