Last night, my friend and I ganked a guy in a Corvette. It was over pretty quick, we teamed up on him, rammed him, and shot him to pieces with our frag cannons. It was a legit gank.Since a gank rarely produces anything of value within the game, your enjoyment must be external to the game. That means you are looking for a player level "interaction". Since you are not trying to connect with the player long term, your actions needs must be less wholesome. If you want it in more common terms, if it smells like feces and it looks like feces, it probably is feces.
But you'll never believe what happened next. We both sent him friend requests. He accepted. We chatted via in-game messages. He joined our wing and hung out with us. I gave him a 1v1 fight, which he won - though I do like to think I did OK overall. We ended the evening by saying pleasant good-byes and see you laters.
Want to know the dirtiest secret about ganking of all? That kind of interaction happens on a near-daily basis.
PVP players are looking for PVP. The way we find each other is by interdicting everyone. If the target submits to the interdiction, it's quite likely they're a PVPer. They may be in their mining ship right now, or their mule, or their whatever - but that's not to say they don't have an FDL tucked away aboard their fleet carrier in the next system over.
So we fight, we send the friend request, we have emergent, truly wholesome gameplay experiences.
While roleplaying as awful, psychopathic murder hobos.
It's complicated, I know. But this is the true story of what it's like to be a ganker.