See, this is where you're wrong and you just don't seem to get it. When we say "ED is not Eve" we mean that ED is not a game that is about group mechanics, it's a game about individuals. You can be as proud of your "fleet" as you like, but ED isn't about that, and introducing it (as you keep on wanting/requesting/demanding) would fundamentally change the game from ED into something else.
Oh and I ride too... Triumph here.
Dangerous is not just about individuals. That isn't the way Frontier sold the game at all. If it was truly about individuals then they would have kept Offline mode. They want us to share the galaxy. What sold me on Elite: Dangerous was Frontier's constant chant of "cooperative multiplayer".
Power Play is NOT about individuals. It is about coordinated efforts of a large number of players.
Wings is NOT about individuals.
Community Goals are about the Community.
We're soon to be getting Multicrew. Again: Not about individuals.
I'd agree that historically the Elite franchise has been about the individual but that has more to do with the state of online gameplay at the time those games were produced.