Target the station when you're in front of it. Compare the two holograms - your ship's and the station's and notice that they are not paralel - rather, if something is facing you directly, its hologram is facing the pilot (almost, you'll have to see how it looks).
So that's the first clue - manoeuvre in SC in a way that will leave you approaching the station when its hologram is facing you.
The other important thing is to notice how stations are positioned relative to the body they orbit. They are always facing one of the body's poles. In other words, they are facing the planet but instead of at the equator, they have their entrance turned 45° "up" or "down".
(we'll leave out the fact that this is physically impossible for now

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So you have to approach the station by flying in between the station and the planet, watching the hologram to see from which direction.
dammit. Ninja'd