Having a negative reaction to a singular event does not equate to being griefed, people will get those everytime their team looses a match in Battlefield for example - Griefing amounts to bullying an indervidual, repeated unwanted behaviour focused on one player that is perpetrated by a single user or group of users. Being killed once by a player is not griefing and no definitoin of griefing remotely suggests that it is.
There's no need for anything to be repeated to qualify as griefing. For example a player using exploits to kill players in a busy station is a cheat (exploits) and a griefer (killing players by cheating then trying to harvest salt in the forum), he may never meet the same player twice but he's still obviously a griefer.
Anyway, if someone is really stupid enough to feel that getting blown up by a player is an act of griefing than I suggest they contact support. They'll recieve a reply telling them they'll look into the matter and then their email will be trashed as soon as support see it's an isolated instance of being blown up. That is the reality of it. Unless there is a provable pattern of abuse, the player has not been griefed. (this thread is pointless)
None of which relates to anything I've said.
There are very black and white definitions of what griefing is out there (in fact I found 0 that were open to interpretation - suprising being a definition and all) and to the mass populus they are and will always be what griefing is. 'Spin Doctor Cear Bears' on the Elite forum aside of course, they can continue to live in their own bubble.... Still doesn't change anything.
Post one then so I can poke big holes in it.
You are resorting to name calling because you can't put a coherent argument together, you just keep repeating your own subjective opinions.