It's not a deal-breaker. I have an opinion and I'm expressing it. Arguments that I should be satisfied with the status quo because it's how the game is ignore the fact that Elite is constantly in development and continues to change. When I purchased Elite there was no Power Play and no player factions. We weren't close to driving around on planets and doing other cool things. Frontier has clearly established a willingness to modify and change their game. It's reasonable to embrace that willingness and provide arguments for having things in a certain way.
Fair enough. I'm glad it's not a deal-breaker for you and I would be glad to encounter you if you're ever in the same group as I am or playing open at the same time. Your opinion is as valid as anyone elses of course, and of course you are welcome to express it. The facts of how the game was designed from the ground up, however, mean that even if your opinion was shared by FD it can't be made that way without a fundamental re-architecting of the software. There's a video out there with one of the devs describing the games underlying architecture in detail and quite frankly, if they were to suddenly get a brainstorm and say "Wow! Beer4TheBeerGod was right.. we HAVE to do it that way!" they'd be tearing the whole thing down and starting over. Technically, the ONLY way they could do anything like what you'd like without redesigning from scratch is to eliminate solo and groups entirely, leave everybody in open all the time, and that is so fundamentally against the "play the way you want to" ethos and - as you can see from these three megathreads - WOULD be a deal-breaker for so many current players that I think the chances of the status quo on this particular issue ever changing are somewhere along the lines of the chance a snowball has of surviving a blast furnace. So, therefore, I think the response to your opinion of "You got the game you got. Play by its rules or go home." is somewhat justified. You may have a great idea for how those rules would be improved in your eyes but that's almost like going to the baseball commissioner in the middle of the World Series like we are right now and saying "You're all playing it wrong, try it like this" and handing them the rulebook for cricket. (Yes, I understand both games, I'm a limey and used to be a pretty decent seam bowler but I live in the USA and I do love a decent ball game