actually you can say whatever you want, whenever you want. FD is not all knowing nor omni-powerful in game development. Not to say they aren't good , but it is wise to take feedback from the audience.
Kind of remind me of a certain type of debate topic, where instead of debating the issue or problem - everyone on the defenders side just circumnavigates the problem by saying it is FD's will that the game is as is and it's the best possible outcome for a Sandbox, when clearly this is not the case
The solution to one player/group not being able to deny content to another - that isn't a problem.
The solution to one player/group not being able to force another player to be content against their will - not a problem.
Everyone payed the same, everyone has the same choices, and where those choices conflict then the choice that causes the most inconvenience is the one that loses out. A fairly equitable state of affairs and quite probably the best outcome possible given a game which wasn't designed as a pvp game.
It lacks choke points, resource scarcity, Territorial scarcity, and gives an effectively infinite map. The only thing that was ever guaranteed to be scarce from the outset, in the game design FD brought to the table at the kickstarter, is an unwilling player in an instance as a target. Quite probably the reason words were banded around like co-op, and rare and meaningful by FD. It would appear back then they understood game design , particularly the game they'd planned to make. If they wanted to make a pure pvp game in the mold of Eve then they would have done that at the start, designed the networking, different server architecture with probably smaller instance sizes or more money required to be leached of the players to fund something larger. They'd have thrown the core of the game, the 1:1 galaxy away and gated the players into a finite area with no real chance for escape.
To try to turn an apple into an orange when you've already planted the tree and plucked the first fruit is probably going to be a mistake adn a serious waste of everybody's time and effort.