I remember when ppl used to thrive on competition and challenge to better their peers. This generation nowadays is all about the "competition is bad. Everyone is equal. There are no winners or losers" bunch of bull crap they teach kids in school now
so in your mind competition only exists in confrontation and killing.. so field and track sports.. guess that isn't competing.. chess, draughts backgammon.. guess those game aren't competitive. in terms of trading in game i can compete with other traders if i wish, or i can compete with myself or i can just hauls for the sake of travelling to new places and finding new routes and funky station names.
it is sad that you are so dependant on pvp conflict to justify or prove yourself within your peer. as for the whole 'bunch of bull' they teach kids in school' these days rhetoric.. you know nothing! id rather their time was spent on academic subjects, any environment that has a group of individuals doing the same thing, especially if it is going to be graded, automatically makes it competitive to those who take pride in their work. Understanding the nature of competing is far far more important, that the choice of the competition.
my daughters have always been driven from personal pride, and strive for the best results they can. my eldest is a total maths and science nerd.. starts her engineering degree this year, and my youngest while equally intelligent, has a preference for sociology, history, english, physiology and biometrics, and is mad crazy about crossfit and running, something she does for fun. she competes against herself as she is more interested in perfect technique and form than in winning competitions. currently she is on a military base working a group trainee officers very hard for the next week.
so you see, what they are doing, actually has some importance and really does mean something. this is a game, nothing we do here has any importance on life, maybe grow up and realise that. also think about his.. normal people tend to play games that they enjoy, that is the whole idea behind a game is it not.. what the hell are you still doing here if you don't like it?