I believe this game is balanced just fine. FD have said repeatedly they are working on the combat logging issue, how bout a little patients.
But I think the game is balanced beautifully, for all types of players. Why don't you just go in your chosen mode, then simply ignore the other two modes? It really is this simple, your trying to make big issues for ulterior motives. I feel like you're trying your best to just make FD feel like the game is simply broken, even though more and more people are purchasing it every single day. This is a fact! Even with the horrible imbalances in the modes??? I suppose they're just not reading the details eh? Do you think there may be a few people buying it with the intention of getting to play a really cool space game, isolated from players like yourself You know that's exactly why I purchased it. Or do you just think that every single player that happens to think differently than you are just simply stupid, and have no idea what were talking about? I opt for "Stupid". I guess because I don't hyper analyze this game. moan and complain, and just keep going on & on about every little detail, that I'm simply stupid.
You know I really like this game, and I do know the difference in what I like and what I dislike. I don't need you to explain this to me, or continue to lecture me on how I need to understand this and that. I know what I like, I like this game. I know it's balance beautifully, and I know your types of players have a really hard time with this. I think they should give you the CG's, and a 150% pay increase across the board for open. Basically to shut you up, but ya know that's really not gonna do it is it? Because once you get what you want, and most players still don't want to go there, you'll be right back here groping for new straws.
Let me share one of my theorys.

I fully believe this game is going to attract a whole lot of PVE oriented players because of these modes, and mode switching. Why? Because they can play with family and friends, and virtually guarantee some one like you won't come swooping in and bury your foot in there ars, when there just trying to figure out how to mine. Say a guy, his wife and maybe his 10 year old daughter, no interest in PVP, or even player interaction other than just there family unit. Why do you think ED's doing so well? Because of players like yourself? I hate to break it too you, but there doing well largely because of the PVE players, not the PVP players that want the same old decade old crap, "Drama in Space". They support modes that attract PVE players in mass, and there doing so.
I personally despise people that think they have to hyper analyze every single thing, including games, that every intention was made to strive for excellence in there produce. You notice I said excellent, not perfection, as this game is like all the others in the sense that. "IT WILL NEVER BE PERFECT FOR YOU OR ANY BODY ELSE"!
So you just go right ahead and proceed with your kind of Meta Game here. Then FD will figure out the same lesson CCP learned with your type of emergent game play or emergent game development. LOL