I too spend a lot of time in game not wanting to deal with other players. I actually picked my homebase from 1.2 to 1.3 based on the fact that I really didn't want to see other folks that much. My system was Hip 80242, I almost never saw CMDR's there. Definitely no griefing, and I almost never spoke to other players when I did see them (when I didn't feel like it ). Fact of the matter is, there are several thousand? systems in Human Occupied Space, seems to me to be plenty of room to avoid people if you want to, while staying in Open.
Except by using/picking solo mode....you never actually have to see anyone else, anywhere. How is your situation "better"? Why should I follow your "advice"? What is my "incentive" for risking unpleasant experiences in open?
I've been a gamer for decades now...and I've had those "unique experiences" you speak of...in every game that allows PvP. Kinda renders the "unique" obsolete, eh? I'm of the age now where I no longer feel the need/desire to make someone else miserable for my enjoyment....and refuse to be someone else's content/misery outlet.
You are correct in one of your posts insofar as we both paid the same amount for the game, and both our opinions are equally valid. I'm not disputing that at all. However....your game play and enjoyment of the product put forth is also equivalent to mine, and I don't want to play in open....but I purchased a game that stated I didn't have to in order to be able to enjoy every facet of said game. People that want me to do something I'm unwilling to do, or to somehow devalue/lessen my contributions to game mechanics/systems are perfectly fine in stating those opinions. I'll fight for their right to state those opinions....but I'll be damned if I'll let them take away/devalue/lessen my enjoyment of the product I purchased.
I also daresay...that if FDevs do alter this core system, I'm well within my rights to ask for a refund, as the product that I originally purchased will have ceased to exist. I'm also reasonably certain I won't be alone in this reaction, should that undesirable day ever come to pass. Let us fervently hope it does not.