Joining a group definitely is an answer (worked for me!), but I don't think it's the answer.
Problem is, that a lot of gamers play casual - and I don't mean dumbed down mobile games, but an attitude. You're tired after a day of work and tending to the kids, you grab a beer and sit down to unwind with some gaming. You haven't got the time, energy or will to commit to a group. You just want to play, and possibly have a few random encounters and interactions with your fellow gamers. Preferably not being seal clubbed.
Now some seem to think that this kind of gamer is undeserving and should be ganked into oblivion, never to be seen again, but I think this is just stupid elitism and not healthy for the game community or the game's long term survival.
Problem is, that a lot of gamers play casual - and I don't mean dumbed down mobile games, but an attitude. You're tired after a day of work and tending to the kids, you grab a beer and sit down to unwind with some gaming. You haven't got the time, energy or will to commit to a group. You just want to play, and possibly have a few random encounters and interactions with your fellow gamers. Preferably not being seal clubbed.
Now some seem to think that this kind of gamer is undeserving and should be ganked into oblivion, never to be seen again, but I think this is just stupid elitism and not healthy for the game community or the game's long term survival.