INDIVIDUAL PERSON: Here's a terrible idea, do you like it
A MILLION PEOPLE: No, it's terrible
INDIVIDUAL PERSON: Haha joke's on you I knew it was terrible and that makes me clever
if you think, i think it was a bad idea... nah. But i did think that a lot of people would not understand what i was saying (and still don't know-I
KWCN), because they had already decided what they though , by the time they saw the title.
You should have a good look though the post, made quotes where people have said things i have not said, or even said the opposite of... but they had made up a narrative in their head, then argued it.
Must have been 3 or 4 posts that understand the topic, and gave relative feedback, which i took on board

But a lot of other got upset when i didn't agree with that they said, because it wasn't relative to what i said... if someone come in and starts a random argument, well i have to point it out

only fair (
and helpful for the person making the post). I know i'm supposed to get upset and back down, get into a personal slagging match and so on... but i don't
And now the thread is turning to character assassination

talking of my underhand motive and such. Try to Undermine the poster then you have lost the argument... don;t worry, i can hear you thinking...
''but no one agreed with your idea''
to that i say, read, there a lot in the thread... read

I wanted my idea to be challenged, to get the feedback (and guess what, as much as people think, the forum isn't a representative slice of the community)
I have learnt not to use a question in the title, because people seem to think that means they can just read the title and post. Progress was made
ADDED:
The worry here is. Someone can come along to talk about something. Just takes one or 2 angry posters, that have missed the point, to start the ball rolling, and the Original post feels overwhelmed.
Normally turns into a fight, if the OP gets frustrated. So what I found interesting was to see some familiar faces, in on the ‘kill’… along with how people got so upset when I pointed out they where imagining things I had not stated, Rather than go oops (and some did), they double down.
Let’s review:
- When it was understood by some posters, they clearly stated that they where personally not interested. And that is fair
- Some , with a full understanding of its optionality felt it would impact the player base, by splitting it. A very good point, which I took on board

- some people explained how they were not having the issues I had outlines, and even gave some interesting info that was very important. Took that on board
- there was even a logical test of my idea, which I liked, as the poster had read and understood the topic before posting
- there was a post that was very much in opposition of what I had outlines, went though that one in detail. Agreed with some point, disagreed with some, and answered questions that had be put forward
Point being, beyond the pettiness and misunderstanding posters, that where mainly negative, the thread had some adult discussion going on. Almost like 2 parallel thread. But I took the time to address everyone (well nearly)
Some where here for a fight, some where hear to debate. Put aside the sillies, and it went well, got some good feedback.
Maybe give the thread a read
