She played only open because I play that way. We did some wing trade missions together, the easy stuff so she could get used to the game. Perhaps she choose Open Button because she always had done it before. We had some interactions, friendly encounters with other squadron members. There was no hint that a "gank" could happen in her previous play sessions even that I told her that there are unpleasant players in ED. She could not imagine someone to be that nasty to kill her without any reason (what a naive character you could think). Point is that it troubled her almost half a day. No comparison to real tragedy of course... But in game actions have influence on real emotions. And I am sure she is not someone special (for me of course she is
) in comparison to the in-general player.
This is not an unusual story, many players have been playing in open for years, and then a similar thing happens to them, and they either quit or starts playing in Solo or seeks out a Private Group like Mobious.