... and you did just exactly that, the other way around.
OMG gaem braek, developer have no idea what they are doing!
P.S never had srv exit black screen/crash issue. And I'd say I have a fair bit more than an average amount of hours in this game since the start
Yep, the correct course is to look up what other players are having the same issue and see if you can track down a common cause, try suggested fixes from other players and see if anything helps, there are a lot of troubleshooting steps before that, the last thing you do is suddenly start blaming someone because what that does is immediately kick the can into the garbage where no-one is going to pick it up and it will never get fixed.
As I said I have had it happen once, that was all during Horizons era, the OD beta and OD full release and up to now, and I know it was a networking issue because when I checked afterwards my internet was down for everything. If there's a connection issue the game will appear to run fine even up to a few minutes, except the moment you try and change instance, hyperspace jump with the endless tunnel, black screen exiting ship or SRV sits there because it can't load data for the new instance, it may have actually been a problem for a few minutes but that's when you notice it, not necessarily when it happens. So you might kill the process or restart, and by that time the temporary connection glitch is over and everything seems to be running fine, but you actually lost connection a minute ago.
So you run a tool that logs the internet activity and see if there has been any funny spikes of glitches while you were playing, you can even set them to just check activity on a certain port so can watch the ports the ED uses to eliminate that as an issue, but just to say "it's your fault" doesn't help. You can say, "there's a problem and I need help to fix it," but if I am your tech and you say "it's your fault, fix it" that immediately cuts out at least 50% or more of the tests I can run to try and find the issue.