Let us recap.
You adore Power Play and constantly await updates to the system and you married a teacher. This masochistic reputation you have, it is not unearned, is its~?
Marriage is a lot like Powerplay*, actually.
Rules are complex, arbitrary and intimidating.
Expansion in later cycles is bad leading to turmoil.
The rewards are great to start with, but years in look thin and pointless.
Day to day work is repetitive grind, doing mindless things for years over the same thing.
*Anyone reading this I kid. Marriage is great and so is Powerplay.