I returned Death Stranding because the music could not be turned off. It's the first thing I do in any game -- turn off the music.
I despise having music playing in the background of, well, anything really. Including real life.
I find music to be too compelling, and I can't "tune it out", so it interferes with my thinking/enjoying.
It's probably part of why I became a musician myself, and worked for years as an audio engineer. I have the ability to pick out sounds in a mix, or even individual voices in a group.
I've always been very attuned to music. Having music playing is just too distracting for me.
I listen to music when I want to enjoy music.