Not a strawman, I genuinely see your point. You want to play without fear of being attacked by someone you can't handle yourself. Maybe you don't like combat, maybe you just like to keep on trucking whatever. IMHO playing in Solo/Closed is like playing chess against a 4 years old. It doesn't take much brain to outwit him. However, if you find your perfect enjoyment in that, who am I to force you do otherwise. Have fun and play the game how you want.
I merely say that in Open, you can experience a whole different type of excitement. You are missing out if you don't try it.
I was snoring around and was on the verge of leaving due to massive boredom when I met some commanders who gave a good chase. I was thrilled by the experience. Something ALIVE in this desolate desert. WOW. I started to seek out these encounters and ended up playing as a CMDR pirate more and more. Not because I like mugging people, but I feel that is what the game needs to give a better experience.
I met captains, who were so thrilled by my raid that they themselves wanted to be pirates. Once I jumped a T6 pilot. He got so scared he dropped his entire cargo. I told him that I will take 4 tons and he can pick up the rest, I will not hurt him. Instead, he said he wanted to join me and be a pirate. So we headed out, I took down the shields and provided escort and he locked, syphoned and scooped. We had fun.
Wait, you play a "combat" pilot but can't do basic evasive tactics?
You can maneuver in SC so that the attacker can't even get behind you.
You can also keep going in and out of SC.
If you fail that and get interdicted, the Cobra can be a very fast ship. In the correct config, it can easily outrun my Viper. And if not, turn around and apply full burn. By the time the attacker turns around you will be 4kms away.
Once I was jumped by 1 ASP, 1 Python and 1 Conda (I attacked their buddy earlier). By the time they deployed their hardpoints, I was out of their mass lock.
Granted, you need to play in open, against real players to learn these.
If you can't outfight someone, you need to outrun him. Knowing which fight you take which to evade is a very important survival skill.