Actually, when I was a really young guy (more than 45 years ago) we had a similar guy in out neigbourgh. When we all was playing in the real sandbox, this boy had a bit habit to destroy our sand castles, tunnels etc. Here and there, he also sometimes stole a plastic car from someone etc. After a really short time, we decided that we do not want to play with him and as soon as he appeared in the sandbox, we went to do something else. No problem for us, we always had a lot of fun around.
Funny thing was, that this boy, alone in the sanbox, always started crying and told his mom "They are evil, they do not want to play with me"...
You memory must be bad because you left out a HUGE part of that story. The insinuation that just because you are older means you are smarted is not missed. But enough with the insults, you don't have any valid point here.
What you missed was all of your mothers organized said 'sandbox' and told all of the kids, you included, that the point of the game was while you guys build up sand castles, tunnels etc. another boy is going to come in and try and destroy the castles and steal vehicles when you aren't looking. The winner builds the castle first and gets his car into the tunnels. But instead of playing fairly when the boy designated to play the 'bad guy' shows up, you all run an hide and 'quit' - so yea, the boy was upset because nobody was letting him play HOW HE WANTED TO PLAY according to how the game of sand box was setup. Just because you don't like how he plays doesn't make his enjoyment/way of playing invalid.
Sound familiar now??
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