I can honestly say since 2.1 was released I haven't launched the game, and I don't even have it installed on this laptop:
http://i.imgur.com/Ep89C6z.png
After I did my last video in the beta there has been nothing to draw me back in to the game. In a way it's becoming like Eve - I'm enjoying seeing other people's stories but there is nothing wanting me to take part in it myself.
It was exactly the same with Powerplay. I've never ground for merits, and I'm not grinding for engineer upgrades either.
For me it's this: In any other MMO (but I'll use Eve here because it's the one I played the most) I could do PvE things in dungeons, solo or as a group (like 5/10 sites, sleeper sites, etc.) all in my own time and pace. They would drop stuff I needed to make cool new things, but they wouldn't drop everything.
However what they would also drop is shiny loot I could keep - or I could sell to buy the parts and materials I needed. That is my effort was paid off by being able to meet supply and demand.
In ED there is none of that. As solo I have to collect everything, and there is no real co-op - even when P2P instances do work.
What there is, is an expectation that if I want to progress I have to spend most of my free time doing it. To fly literally light years to find the small chance of getting the materials I need. To drive literally tens to hundreds of KM all for the small chance of finding that particular rock to shoot.
And then on top of that it's down to random chance that I get something I want - and a very good chance that all that effort will be wasted.
Rollocks to that.
Much better would be a game where I can dip in and out, spend an hour or two doing PvE sites, collecting materials and loot and dropping it off at a trade hub to sell TO OTHER PLAYERS who would benefit from my spent time - and my spent time will benefit me. I want to be able to go away, come back a day or two later and have enough money to buy the stuff I need.
Then maybe the game would be more fun. But it sure isn't that just now - for me it's just a pretty space engine with a Yard Work Simulator.
TL;DR - It's a VIDEO GAME not a TIME SINK. Video games should be fun, ED isn't fun in it's current incarnation.
+rep
I still have hope that FD can find a sweet spot with Grind vs Reward. I think a lot of the angst on the forum is related to too much grind not enough reward.
Currently I'm grinding rep in Empire and it is slow going compared to what it used to be. If you are Elite now, then good on you. Reset your save then see how much more work it is now. That is just ONE example. Never mind the engineer grind, credit grind, merit grind, interdiction grind.