Ah, see, there's the rub: 'We' don't need 'you' to blaze our own trail. You're right, we have Mobius, FleetComm, Solo, consensual PvP in Arena, the choice to fly in open if we want PvP elsewhere.
You don't.
'You' (assuming you're someone who likes blasting unarmed traders or explorers out of the sky, and if that is what you like, have fun), on the other hand, need 'us'. Without targets, you can't blaze your own trail. The most anti-social in-game (aimed at CMDRs, not players) behavior is, and isn't that funny, the one that needs other people the most.
So, no, I won't ever dictate how you play. I'm telling you that I won't play with you. I can play how I like without you. Can you play how you like without targets?
You need our cooperation to play your own style. Give me a good reason, ask nicely, and I'll play along. Kill on sight and without reason, and I won't.