While it's been there from the very beginning ED was never meant as an e-sport game or some sort of Moba (you've got CQC for that). That's basically the direction what most PVPers seem to be trying to move the game into. PVP in small scale with some friends works, but in Open - just not. The sheer existence of Solo and Group modes should ring a very big bell to you.
ED was never "PVP-centric" as you're trying to suggest, it was just one of many aspects of the game. I would agree in that PVP could be better than it actually is but to make this happen FD would have to re-write large chunks of the game, starting from the netcode and a change to one single central server (which would open up quite a lot of other cans of worms, including but not exclusive - the payment model. Hint: This is not and never will be EVE).
That being said, I always found the blindness of certain PVPers to these facts fairly naive (or more friendly: wishful thinking) - from the very beginning on. Unfortunately I can't see any signs of a learning process.