This is the best response I have ever seen to griefers;
https://forums.frontier.co.uk/showt...r-s-Attitude-Towards-Open-PvP-and-Gitting-Gud
As I just posted over there:-
Scenario 1:-
Now ask her to build a house and when someone kills her with a diamond sword, say, build the house again, and when someone kill her with a diamond sword, say, build the house again. See how long she manages to carry on.
Yes, she could change what's she's doing, give up building the house, and stand there with a diamond sword, but is she then doing what she enjoys and wants to?
Scenario 2:-
Now ask her to build a house and when three other players kill her with their diamond swords, say, build the house again, and when three other players kill her with their diamond swords, say, build the house again. See how long she manages to carry on.
Yes, she could change what's she's doing, give up building the house, and run away every time she sees a group of other players, but is she then doing what she enjoys and wants to?