Oh yeah my immersion it's totally ruined!!
Why do I respawn when I die? What is this an Atari game?
Pfft don't even get me started on repairs, I want to wait a month to repair my ship!!! FRONTIER ARE YOU NOT LISTENING
Also I would totally love to have to pee in the middle of an engagement, come on FD this is not a kids game!!
/seriously though
Some games are just the way that they are and they are going to be made in the way the Developer wants to make them, I would love to fly a Cruiser in Halo, does that mean that the developers should do it? Hell no, they envisioned you being a soldier (albeit a walking talk) and that's what they give you because that's what the game it's meant to be. In Elite you're not supposed to be a Businessman owning properties and selling in the stock market, you're supposed to make your living in space. FD has stated multiple times that ED IS NOT SUPPOSED TO BE A SIMULATOR, naturally those who want a sim will not find it here and that's ok, that's how the industry works. Now autopilot sure there is no reason not to have it, other than it may be as perjudicial for some as it will be beneficial for others but what if FD doesn't want autopilot, have you thought about their side? I would alose love just kick back and relax on long trips but that's not the reality and nor do i feel FD is obligated to abide to my requests. They want to make their game in their way, and that will get a fan base that likes that game, it really seems that you want elite to be something else to fit your vision, and that's entirely ok. But that doesn't mean they are obligated to do what you want.
It's their game, their choices, if you like it that's awesome, if you don't then that's just how life is. You're probably looking for something else
Also if you're looking for 100% immersion as you state then you wouldn't have an FSD in the first place, just an FYI.