This. That's the exact process I think most people go through - work out how much your life is going to suck before you get to the fun stuff. Then figure out it's not worth it and go find something else to do with their time.
Could you provide some ideas as to what you'd like Frontier to add to the game to make it more engaging? That might be a bit more constructive. At this point we're not sure what part they weren't listening to?
I can relate, OP.
Sometimes i tell myself "oh ! let's do x or y things today in Elite", then i remember that i'll have to spend a good 30 min to jump -> getting the good ship -> getting the proper outfit and then only i'll be able to do what i want to do.
So in the end, i just play something else
What's the alternative? If you could instantly call any of your ships or modules to you from anywhere in the universe without a delay, or fit whatever module you wished without having to work for it, it would pretty much negate the need to make compromises.