I've written this story a couple of times before on this forum:
I used to be heavily into sim-racing. I ran the biggest UK league at the time (late '90's/early 2000's), I helped to organise several international competitions. I was a name known to many, I was very, very good and eventually it became difficult to actually race myself because I was organising so much stuff, dealing with complaints & infractions, all that stuff.
I practised every day to stay on form, and it became a chore. All I wanted to do was race & have some fun, but no one else was organising the kind of thing I wanted to do so I ended up organising it myself.
While moderating races it became pretty clear to me that the races lower down the ranks were a lot more fun than the ones I was in. One small error would change the race outcome for me, but for those middling drivers they could make a few mistakes & still have a good race because chances are all the other drivers would probably make mistakes too, so there was plenty of action & drama.
So now I don't try so hard. I don't chase those last few percentages, I don't spend countless hours tabulating every stat, I just play the game & deal with whatever comes up. I meet interesting people, in general the players I meet (in Open) are doing much the same as me, just progressing at their own pace, learning a little as they go.
If you go all out you'll just get bored, your scrutiny of the game will expose flaws that just become frustrating.
There's more than one way to play, play your own way & I'll play mine
