If you don't like using Solo, then don't use it.
You're not competeing with anyone, so play the mode you enjoy.
The whole idea of a "performance meta" is a prison of your own making. No one is forcing you to play that way but yourself.
It gives us a game with some interesting mechanics and unique possibilities.
Actually you are, because everything you do in open impacts Solo players.
Yes, I chose to pursue my objectives first and foremost.
This game have money. Ships cost money. PvP practice cost 6 mil per rebuy.
True, this grind can be done only to catch up to people. There is no outstanding gear.
That brings us to... Why would you care if I gain more space peso for my risks?