And how do you tell one from the other?
Surely, somethings my CMDR has done have annoyed players at various times, or appeared, lacking other context to be wantonly beliggerent, no matter how justified my CMDR's actions from an in-character perspective.
For example, a story, in pictures:
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=33mKFGZCTJ4
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DH1r3yIVoAc
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fHqhHBuH_8Y
The above three are in chronological order, but I left the beginning of this story, where a wing attempted to claim a 200cr bounty on my CMDR while he was hunting in a RES, for last:
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdFLjpxtzo0
My CMDR does not like be shot at, especially without provocation (and he does not consider being wanted for reckless discharge of firearms sufficient provocation for attempted murder), so was quite aghast at being attacked by these individuals. Understandably, my CMDR sought revenge, and over the next couple of months successfully downed at least two members of the wing that originally attacked him.
I have zero animosity against any of those players, they were all good sports; didn't break any game rules, didn't even try to talk OOC crap. And even if my CMDR doesn't like being shot at, I as a player, love it when my CMDR is shot at.
Now, I'm operating under the assumption that these players, by virtue of having selected the Open mode, were ok with this sort of gameplay, and even if they didn't remember trying to shoot down some random wanted FDL weeks or months past, wouldn't get bent out of shape or take it personally when my CMDR showed up to try to send their CMDRs home in escape pods.