The problem with avoiding gravity wells is that you need to have orbit lines on. When that's the case it really diminishes the feel of space to me. I like to have a clear view. I'd get rid of most of the overlay text if I could.
I don't have a problem with orbit lines, but they aren't required for this. You still have sensors in SC and the relative locations of planets are clearly depicted.
The reason why some of us can't do this is because we take all the missions for a particular minor faction in a particular system. I'm assuming you don't play the BGS
Nothing about 'playing the BGS' mandates taking missions that will take an inordinate amount of time to complete. If reading the description and refraining from clicking accept lets you finish your stack of missions faster, then that's the mechanically optimal path for your BGS metagame.