You're right, that's exactly what I'm being.
It's kind of what you do when you reach a certain level of experience and skill in any activity.
ED is a game.. To some the game is building a meta to the 9s apex killing machine and making everything go pop
to others it is having a loaded to the max T9 and trying to dodge players and get their paper ship from A to B
for others it is playing alone and doing the above, or something totally different.
For the record ALL my ships are specced in what i consider a plausible way as if it were my actual meat suit on the line, but I choose not to play in open because I do not feel it is a very plausible game universe... PG isnt perfect but it is closer to the "vision" of the pilots federation.
I DO use engineers but i have very strict rules on how they should be used, so basically i can never over power my ship.
(small ships allowed 1 shield booster, medium and large 2 but each one must be different, so only 1 high capacity and 1 for resistance. (if i engineer, not all my ships are)
all my ships are only ever allowed 1x shield cell. similar rules for armour plating as well. and i only use weapon mods that sound to me belivable. (I dont want lasers of healing on my ship)
but that is me.
We all have our things and i dont expect other people will get my rules and that is ok.
Regarding outfitting however, there are some who suggest if a ship is not A rated - as much as possible - and G5 engineered it is not space worthy. I totally disagree with that. Even E rated is considered spaceworthy, if there is no place for E rated shields in the game they should not BE in the game.