Do you guys like suffering the effects of FDEV's ill concieved game design? Because that's what it sounds like to me. Like Ethelred said, the objectively reality of Open Play doesn't care about your feelings. It is what it is. Adapt to it, or go pound sand.
Or as I've said multiple times in this thread now: choose your mode, adapt accordingly. You can't control what others do, only how you deal with it.
If you're just going to reject this as mere "blaming" then I'll leave you to your filth.
In these discussions certain people justify their behauviour with "I can do whatever I want, and you cannot call it rude, because it is allowed by rules" argument. Maybe so. But you can be obnoxious or rude even while abiding rules. I could join local -group in real life, it is not against law itself. Group can be perfectly legal. But I really suspect that me arguing with same argument would not help much against some people thinking that I'm bad person. I could even join to that group as practical joke but it still wouldn't help me.
Okay its just a game. And person being nuisance in game may be great person IRL. That may be so. Though I must say that I have some difficulties on that, because, well call me unimaginative I tend to be "good guy" even in games. Maybe even somewhat than in real life