The smart pirate doesn't pull over a Cutter unless they operate in a wing
They also rely on inexperienced pilots in paper builds, to some extent at least, to be fair - although I took the "sustainable piracy" approach - due to the ships I flew I'd only ever ask for a handful of tons of cargo, which most victims would still decline in their overwhelming greed, and then give me grief over comms because that harmless little ship dropped their shields and disabled their drives
Edit - on the topic of RPing piracy though, I did give that a go; typing a simple "do not run, I will shoot otherwise - please hand over 10t of LTDs" gave the T9 I pulled over enough time to low wake. The only time where some RP warning is still feasible is within asteroid belts, but that's pretty much dead since Borann et al is no more.