I'm a VR player, so I know how amazing VR in Elite is. I do. (And I do play FPS games in VR, I played through HL Alyx multiple times)
Still, the VR part of the Elite playerbase is tiny. You have to accept that. Heck, the number of VR players IS tiny compared to the whole market as VR is expensive.
Plus, to implement VR properly, you have to implement a lot of movement options to allow as many people to play as possible. Many of those options are incompatible with balanced multiplayer or don't mix well with non-VR players.
So with all that in mind, Frontier decided to plan for a release of Odyssey without VR rather than delaying it, while they figure out how they can do VR properly in a future update.
I don't see what's tough to understand there, and I don't see how the lack of VR for Odyssey will stop you from playing it on a screen like 99% of the players until VR is a go on Odyssey as well.
Angry, entitled, selfish and toxic comments won't change their decision, so maybe there's no need to do 50 pages of that in these forums.