I couldn't deal with it at all on Mouse/Keyboard to start with, but having a HOTAS made a huge difference, especially for learning - at least, it did for me.Do people prefer that with HOTUS? It feels really unworkable.
Getting the feel of nudging the stick to get the right amount of correction provided a really good feedback mechanism. Also much easier to learn when just making small, slow jaunts around a station for practice

It would be even easier with dual stick, I think. The throttle can be hard, because the instinct is to just keep it "on"
Even if you just start messing with FA off to do turns in combat, it can make a huge difference, and be very satisfying! It breaks the cycle of jousting that combat often can be.