Ah Zambrick! Allow me to to provide you with counterpoint that will prove my unparalleled superiority to anyone else!
As I mentioned earlier in the post, my wingmate has been playing since just before 2.3 dropped. He maybe has 100 or 200 hours in game. Actually, I need to ask him. I can tell you that it's not much though.
Guy has never been to quince, never killed skimmers or stacked massacres. No, he mined and ran missions and CGs in a Cobra and T-6 until he could afford an Asp with plenty of rebuys to spare, then took that biznatch exploring one day, and just returned from an 11k Ly round trip, and is sitting one something like 250M in cash.
Your position, that the only way to make money in this game is to either cheat or grind endlessly, is false.
Your position that the game is unapproachable to new players isn't way off, but frankly it's part of the charm of the game. The wingmate I spoke of above had two very experienced wingmates to show him the ropes and get him off on a good start. And while a lot of fun can be had in the discovery phase, the discovery phase can be incredibly frustrating as well for folks who have no tutelage.
That being said... even without tutelage, once I got out of the sidey I never flew without rebuy.
(Also, people kill people and always will. If we do make it to space someday, there will be no utopia and the killing will continue.)