I can definitely get behind a lot of what you've said. I honestly lost A LOT of motivation to play and tbh I pretty much only play Elite now when I live stream, because those 2 combined activities really give me lots of joy. Especially being able to show this amazing (yet definitely rather stale for me personally now!) game to people that are only just starting or that have never seen Elite before is a great feeling.
I have 4 accounts in total, 3 of which are pretty much untouched - and I rarely play on my alts, because I don't feel the satisfaction that I used to (also when I was planning for the different characters). The game didn't really developed the way I hoped, so I can't fullfill my plans for my alts (smuggler - no gameplay, pirate - absolutely terrible C&P system, and explorer - not much to discover really, lots of repetition, no thicks atmos).
Odyssey, while definitely fun, was/is terribly bugged and the development pace is way too slow for me to keep my interest outside of streaming.
In fact Update 17 is the first update in AGES that got me playing off-stream again, because the Spires are really cool content for me and I feel that spark that I used to.
A lot of this stems from 3 big downsides for me personally:
- Odyssey is very clearly a separate game that is not very well linked to the space game
- The main Ody activity, which seems to be progression throug gear upgrades and engineering is totally killed for me due to the most stupid decision ever made by FDEV - the inability to freely remove gun attachments = unbearable grind if you want a few different, specialised loadouts (I could honestly live with permanent suit upgrades, but guns? scope and bigger magazine super-glued to my gun? honestly...)
- The amount of bugs in the new content and lack of bug fixes for the stuff that annoys me (not saying they are not fixing bugs, but not the ones that kill my joy personally)
I still hope for the next big expansion to be either ship interiors with the whole gameplay related to that OR expanding the landable planets with thick atmos, so we can finally see the weather, the oceans and rivers and actual varied biomes with actual flora and fauna (the current exobiology was fun for a while, but the repetition means it got old VERY quickly).
Saying all that, as I said, I really like to live stream Elite and show how amazing it is to new players. In a way... I wish I have only discovered it now, instead of almost 10 years ago, but at the same time - no regrets, I've had the most amazing time with it and there are still moments, albeit rare, when I still can experience that feeling. Which actually says a lot about this game