IMO Fdev could solve a lot of issues simply by:
1-Increasing menu logout timer to 45 seconds and removing the yes/no option at the end of the countdown
That's not considered clogging though, is it? I thought clog was like Alt-F4, removing network cable, or simply turning off computer. Exit the game is an approved "clog".
Besides, I get interrupted a lot at home. (Wife, kids, dogs, UPS, neighbor, you name it), so I have to quit the game about once or twice every hour for something, and it's usually something that has to be done this second (wives... you know, can't wait one minute to get the trash bags out the door

), so having too long exit of the game would be a bit of bother.
2-Leaving our ships in place for up to 3 minutes following any kind of disconnection other than the menu option.
One minute would be enough I suspect, but yeah, why not.
You clogged than f you. You suffered from some crummy internet connection on your end? Too bad, get better internet or play in a different mode where it doesn't matter as much. Please tell Rinz and the boys that I have solved the problem and we can move on to other issues.
Sometimes it's not the internet per se, but the game itself. I've had the game just quit completely on me once or twice. No bug report dialogue, nothing. Just complete kill switch. Not a big problem though, since I'm rarely ever in combat, but just saying.